Nobody wants to stand up in a crowd and shout aloud “I want my ex back!!!” even though a lot of times that four letter phrase is the summary and the implication of our actions and reactions after a break up. A lot of people nowadays (especially teens and younger people) experience break ups as often as they have a cup of coffee. There are countless reasons why a break up can occur but no matter the reason is, either genuine or not, you can always have your ex back if you want to. After a break up, everyone at a point or the other longs to have their partner back (if you never felt that way it means you were never really emotionally attached) even if the other party is at fault. Although this is easy to deny, it happens in most cases.
Wondering whether you really want your ex back? If you test positive to the following then you do.
- You lose your appetite more often than usual, no matter how nice the dish is, even if it is your favorite, you don’t just feel like eating
- You call you ex several times a day. Although you don’t want to, you find yourself dialing his/her number before you realize.
- You might not have been calling but most of your test messages and emails end up on his phone more often than usual. Whether it is just to say Hi, or to further show your grievance by abusing him/her
- When you get a beep on your phone, you hope it’s him/her (and you are kind of disappointed when it’s not him/her). Sometimes you don’t feel like going too far away from the phone just in case…..
- Wondering what really happened that led to the break up in the first place. You just thought about the whole issue and wondered how things went wrong.
- You repeatedly rehearse what you will say in case you bump into him or her and constantly imagine the likely questions he/she will first ask you if you meet.
- When you eventually meet with them, your heart skip a second, you panic and just say some things that were not in your “rehearsed intro”, you just become kind of defenseless and mess things up
If all these sound familiar, then you sure need your ex back. Swallow your pride and face the reality. Why do you want to live a lonely, sad and frustrating life? If you really need our ex back, you’ve got to go get him/her. There is hope.
