I hear it all of the time, "I don't see how to get my ex boyfriend back before it's too late?" First, you have to look realistically at how relationships progress and more importantly you must learn what you need to do to reclaim his attention.
As we all know in the beginning of any relationship there are feelings of splendor, romance, sexual excitement and all things nice: but, as TIME PROGRESSES you both might become 'uses to a routine' or too 'comfortable' with one another. The flirting stops - along with the EXCITEMENT to see one another and quite often the loving feeling starts to disappear as well. This is a typical relationship habit that can develop!
Being comfortable with one another is a good thing, EXCEPT for the fact that you both forgot to pay attention to all the 'little things' that made your relationship so interesting in the first place!
The Brain is Hard-Wired
Ever since the beginning of time, men and women have always compared their current partner to other potential mates... even if we don't realize it and it is subconscious. When a man REALIZES you are going to be around for good he may and more than likely begin to loose interest in you! The reason being is that a man is PROGRAMMED to 'compete' for his mate.
Once he realizes he no longer needs to 'compete' for you, his interest may start to fade away.
Keep Him Thinking
One of the secrets to keep your man in a long-term relationship with you and 'totally' interested in you is to always have him thinking in the back of his 'mind' that he might loose you at any stage in the relationship! The goal is to keep him thinking that if he DOESN'T stay sharp and on top of his game then you may just loose interest in him!
Now, I want you to understand something very important here... I'm NOT telling you to be 'manipulative' or 'controlling', not at all. What I AM saying is that if you work with your man's 'natural instincts' (the way he was programmed), he will subconsciously - love you all the more for it!
Interesting isn't it? I hope the little tip above has REMINDED YOU how 'men' in general are programmed and how to get it to work in your favor!
In my eBook: "How To Get Him Back FAST" I go into some really great techniques you can use (no matter what stage of the break up you're at) to bring him back to you like a lost puppy! Not only will you have the man you REALLY WANT back in your arms again, but by reading the strategies and techniques I share, you'll feel like the one in TOTAL CONTROL of where the relationship is heading so you'll be calling the shots, not him!
