You'll get a lot of advice on what to do when you're brokenhearted and only want to be back in your lover's arms. But instead you must learn what not to and get back ex boyfriends any time you like.
If He (Your Ex) Needs 'Emotional Support' You SHOULD NOT Volunteer!
Often, when a man has broken up with you he will tend to look 'to you' for emotional support
He'll be looking for a loving ear to listen to him and a shoulder to cry on if something goes wrong in 'His World' such as losing his job for example! He may also be looking to you to use as HIS SEX TOY. In many cases he might even be doing this - subconsciously.
Now I do discuss this topic in great detail in my eBook "How To Get Him Back FAST" because it is ONE of the most important points. However, what I do want you to understand right now... is that I DON'T want you to contact him after he has broken up with you...Not just yet anyway.
By NOT contacting him you are allowing him to heal himself! He may also be DEPRIVED OF SEX which is what could be making him 'miss you' - incredibly. Of course he ISN'T going to get any of your sweet, sweet loving or anything else for that matter. Unless, of course, he is willing to COMMIT to a meaningful relationship with you, right?
The smart thing to do is that you DON'T VOLUNTEER to be there to 'support him' with sensitivity and love! If you do, this can give him a sense of belonging and all the wonderful things he enjoyed from you when you were together! By staying away and literally STARVING HIM of your 'support, sensitivity, love' and not contacting him first - he might end up in a position where he is actually 'very lonely' without you (which is EXACTLY what you want to have happen)! He then might have to face the reality of what life would be like - without you by his side.
Now you may have to fight your natural instincts here - because your instincts NO DOUBT will be telling you to 'contact him' and 'comfort him.' But it is the WORST THING you could possibly do at this point. If you did go to him and support him he could very well instinctively USE YOU, which will drain your energy leaving you feeling hurt, jealous, and worst still humiliated.
So basically what I'm telling you here is to NOT volunteer (under any circumstances) to contacting him or supporting him in any way - while you are both APART!
In Chapter 3 of my eBook "How To Get Him Back FAST" I discuss this in more detail for you. I also show you a number of other Strategies you can use to take control of your relationship so you have the very best chance of getting him to fall in Love with you again... Men can be very predictable when you know THE SECRETS to what makes them tick... In my eBook "How To Get Him Back FAST" I not only shows you how to get your EX back quickly and easily but I also exposes effective techniques on how to KEEP him constantly 'interested' in you...
Don't forget when it comes to Emotional Support, don't be his Volunteer and he will be surprised that you're not - and value you more...
