You'll get a lot of advice on what to do when you're brokenhearted and only want to be back in your lover's arms. But instead you must learn what not to and get back ex boyfriends any time you like.

If He (Your Ex) Needs 'Emotional Support' You SHOULD NOT Volunteer!

Often, when a man has broken up with you he will tend to look 'to you' for emotional support

He'll be looking for a loving ear to listen to him and a shoulder to cry on if something goes wrong in 'His World' such as losing his job for example! He may also be looking to you to use as HIS SEX TOY. In many cases he might even be doing this - subconsciously.

Now I do discuss this topic in great detail in my eBook "How To Get Him Back FAST" because it is ONE of the most important points. However, what I do want you to understand right now... is that I DON'T want you to contact him after he has broken up with you...Not just yet anyway.

By NOT contacting him you are allowing him to heal himself! He may also be DEPRIVED OF SEX which is what could be making him 'miss you' - incredibly. Of course he ISN'T going to get any of your sweet, sweet loving or anything else for that matter. Unless, of course, he is willing to COMMIT to a meaningful relationship with you, right?

The smart thing to do is that you DON'T VOLUNTEER to be there to 'support him' with sensitivity and love! If you do, this can give him a sense of belonging and all the wonderful things he enjoyed from you when you were together! By staying away and literally STARVING HIM of your 'support, sensitivity, love' and not contacting him first - he might end up in a position where he is actually 'very lonely' without you (which is EXACTLY what you want to have happen)! He then might have to face the reality of what life would be like - without you by his side.

Now you may have to fight your natural instincts here - because your instincts NO DOUBT will be telling you to 'contact him' and 'comfort him.' But it is the WORST THING you could possibly do at this point. If you did go to him and support him he could very well instinctively USE YOU, which will drain your energy leaving you feeling hurt, jealous, and worst still humiliated.

So basically what I'm telling you here is to NOT volunteer (under any circumstances) to contacting him or supporting him in any way - while you are both APART!

In Chapter 3 of my eBook "How To Get Him Back FAST" I discuss this in more detail for you. I also show you a number of other Strategies you can use to take control of your relationship so you have the very best chance of getting him to fall in Love with you again... Men can be very predictable when you know THE SECRETS to what makes them tick... In my eBook "How To Get Him Back FAST" I not only shows you how to get your EX back quickly and easily but I also exposes effective techniques on how to KEEP him constantly 'interested' in you...

Don't forget when it comes to Emotional Support, don't be his Volunteer and he will be surprised that you're not - and value you more...

Nobody wants to stand up in a crowd and shout aloud “I want my ex back!!!” even though a lot of times that four letter phrase is the summary and the implication of our actions and reactions after a break up. A lot of people nowadays (especially teens and younger people) experience break ups as often as they have a cup of coffee. There are countless reasons why a break up can occur but no matter the reason is, either genuine or not, you can always have your ex back if you want to. After a break up, everyone at a point or the other longs to have their partner back (if you never felt that way it means you were never really emotionally attached) even if the other party is at fault. Although this is easy to deny, it happens in most cases.

Wondering whether you really want your ex back? If you test positive to the following then you do.

• You lose your appetite more often than usual, no matter how nice the dish is, even if it is your favorite, you don’t just feel like eating
• You call you ex several times a day. Although you don’t want to, you find yourself dialing his/her number before you realize.
• You might not have been calling but most of your test messages and emails end up on his phone more often than usual. Whether it is just to say Hi, or to further show your grievance by abusing him/her
•  When you get a beep on your phone, you hope it’s him/her (and you are kind of disappointed when it’s not him/her). Sometimes you don’t feel like going too far away from the phone just in case…..
• Wondering what really happened that led to the break up in the first place. You just thought about the whole issue and wondered how things went wrong.
• You repeatedly rehearse what you will say in case you bump into him or her and constantly imagine the likely questions he/she will first ask you if you meet.
• When you eventually meet with them, your heart skip a second, you panic and just say some things that were not in your “rehearsed intro”, you just become kind of defenseless and mess things up

If all these sound familiar, then you sure need your ex back. Swallow your pride and face the reality. Why do you want to live a lonely, sad and frustrating life? If you really need our ex back, you’ve got to go get him/her. There is hope.